Making Friends in Russia

By OptiLingo

How to Form Lasting Friendships in Russia

Before you begin working your way to foreign language fluency, it helps to understand the culture behind the language you’re learning. After all, language exists to help a group of people express their ideas and beliefs. Russia is a vast country with a rich history and culture. As you begin your Russian language program, gaining a strong grasp on this history, the values, and the etiquette will help you rapidly achieve success. In particular, you should understand how to build friendships in Russian so that you have a more authentic Russian experience.

Building a Bond, But Giving Up Space

While the Russian people are generally considered guarded, there are a great many ways in which you can bond relatively quickly with a Russian neighbor or business associate. Водка has long been one of the ways people have been able to get Russians to open up and drop any kind of emotional safeguards they might have put up. This doesn’t mean that you need to get them drunk in order to get them to pal around with you. Sharing one drink is usually enough to break through the wall and show that you are truly trying to become a friend.

One of the reasons why the Russian people are willing to get closer to you quickly is that they are willing to get closer to you literally. While personal space is something that is quite important when talking about Western culture, in Russia, that personal space isn’t nearly as important. It’s also said that when Russians talk to one another, the volume in which they use to communicate goes up.

Once you have started to build a friendship with someone, you will usually find that friendship is a relationship where intimate details are shared relatively quickly. These details will very quickly become ones that are not all that intimate, when you consider they are usually being said quite loudly. Partner that with the fact that the person is leaning in, and usually speaking directly into your ear, and it’s certainly an interesting combination from someone who was probably looking at you with a jaundiced eye not all that long ago.